A couple of months ago we watched a video on Sunday morning by Penn of Penn and Teller (here's the link if you missed it: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fa9JE_ZVL88&feature=related).  He's an atheist, but in the video he's talking about a guy who gives him a Bible after one of their shows, and how impressed he was with the guy, with how genuine he was.  He goes on to talk about what he calls 'proselytizing,' which means trying to convince someone to believe what you believe, and it's pretty surprising what he says--that he thinks that if you're a Christian, you should be trying to convince others to believe in Jesus. He says that if he knew a truck was bearing down on you, how much would you have to hate someone not to tell them that they were going to get hit by the truck, and that sooner or later he'd tackle you out of the way regardless of whether or not you believed you were going to be hit.  Do I even need to make the comparison? Okay, I will--if we really believe in eternal separation from God, how much would we have to hate someone to let them experience that without trying to introduce them to Jesus? See, I knew I didn't have to tell you that!

Not bad advice from an atheist is it?  Now we don't normally use the word 'proselytize' because, frankly, it sounds, well, odd. "I don't want to proselytize my friends, I like my friends!" (With a nod to Tommy Smothers, if you remember him.) We talk about being missional, or sharing our faith.  And we do it for the reason that Penn talks about, but let me say it in kind of a more positive way: How much would we have to love someone to want to rescue them from dying?  (Hmm, how much did God love us to do just that?)

See, we aren't missional because it's a way of getting on God's good side, that it earns us points we need to make sure we get into heaven.  It's not about putting notches on the belt of faith I wear (like the bat-belt) that shows how good of a Christian I am.  It's not even really about responsibility.  We want to be missional because there are people in our lives that we genuinely care about, people that we love.  And if we love them, and we really believe that they are in danger, we are going to lovingly try to help them see that danger and the way out of it.  If we just see it as our duty to tell others about Jesus, then all of our relationships are tinged with ulterior motives, and we discard relationships once our "duty" is done.  But if it's about love, then it's more about wanting the best for our friends or family, and an ongoing love for them regardless of how they respond.

I think it's pretty cool that Penn could have that perspective.  He really gets it, much better than we as Christians do most of the time. Balaam's ass strikes again! (Obscure Old Testament reference alert, see Numbers 22:21-33 if that intrigues you.)
 


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Nicki Ramsey
01/28/2010 2:41pm

I noticed that Penn said a few times that the guy wasn't pushy or crazy. I think sometimes it's hard for me to talk about Jesus to my friends and family because I'm afraid that I'll come across as a crazy, religious, bible-thumper. I don't want to scare them off so I tend to just avoid it. It's a hard balance of being subtle but getting the message out. I haven't mastered it yet. I'm willing to learn from anyone that has :)

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Scott Adamson
01/29/2010 10:44am

It might be good to discuss HOW we go about proselytizing... I immediately get an image of grabbing my bullhorn and standing out in front of my house yelling at my neighbors to trust Jesus! I don't think this is the best way to go about introducing people to Jesus...

So, let's share ways that we can share the Gospel message (without being pushy or crazy) - that we can "walk across the room" and engage those around us in conversations about Jesus.

This can be very difficult in my environment (an institute of higher learning). Many of my colleagues are too smart to believe in God. They have figured everything out...they believe what they believe and can articulate why they believe this...they are well read and understand all the messages of tolerance (Jesus is the only way...NO!), acceptance (whatever you believe is fine...as long as you keep it to yourself), spirituality (but faith in WHAT? Usually, it is faith in themselves, their intellect, being a good person), etc.

I see several examples of turning a place of work into their church...socially, we support one another and care for one another (we do life together)...giving, we give to good causes (food drives, blood drives, Angel Tree at Christmas, this semester, the focus is soles for souls which gives new and gently used shoes to those in need)...worship - we worship our disciplines, our events, our classrooms, our technology. Thus, they don't need church!

So, how do we share Jesus with them effectively? Through our lives, through building relationships where important things can be shared naturally, through generosity, through being there for others during difficult times, and "Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect..." 1Peter 3:15

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Jim Miller
01/29/2010 11:19am

Thanks, Scott, that's really important stuff. And I think that there are a couple of things out of our world views that are vital to remember. First, we believe that God loves people, that he desires to be in relationship with them, and that he is actively at work wooing them back into relationship with them. I don't think it's up to us to make people see their need, I think that's God's (through the Holy Spirit) responsibility.

The second thing is that we believe that all of us were made for relationship with God, that there is that "God shaped vacuum" inside of us that we may try to fill with other things, but all of those will eventually show they're not working. Like Solomon in Ecclesiastes--I tried all of this stuff , and it's all worthless. That's when our relationship with our friends and family become vital, when they're asking those kinds of questions.

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